Thursday, April 8, 2010

Stupid question

This is kinda stupid question. But I really have to ask. How do you all mothers stand to be so calm and so still during vaginal examination, while me here was crying like there's no tomorrow? I know the keyword is to relax but seriously I don't know if I can. Help!




8 superstars:

okinokiyo said...

eh i masa VE mmg melalak mcm apa, siap tendang2 lagi hahahaha

makcikrehan said...

eh tak sakit sgt pon kan. entahlah, makcik masa VE cool ajer. rasa cam geli2 gittew :P

eh, aku sorang jer ker cam tu ekk? patutnya sakit ekk?

precious innocent said...

err... boleh x i tanya VE nie yg mana 1? yg masa doc suruh spread kaki & check down under ke?

masa kes 'kebocoran ketuban' dulu & kes bleeding dulu2, i just amik nafas pjg2 & selawat byk2.. tp mmg nyilu la...

-mama emma®-

Arin said...

intan, follow instructions dari nurse. nurse akn suh tarik nafas. coz if u tak tarik nafas, mmg terasa kesakitan, kegelian dan kemenjeritan.

chekna said...

just pretend cool je..walopun dlm hati rasa cam nak jerit je..xsakit pun rasanyakan..paling2 pun rasa cam ngilu2 & geli je...

Ms Lola said...

i cannot answer, i pun tak sanggup nak face it

glam.mama said...

i used the breathing i learned for hypnobirth, and asked that my ob give me a few mins to relax before getting on with the examination. another good thing to do is to distract yourself through conversation with whomever else is with you at the exam. it really works! (for me, at least)

Liza said...

i only focus on the thoughts this will be just kejap jer, take a deep breath and let it happen, before i know, dah settle pun...don't worry, i was nervous too...

 
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