Diamonds are forever, but Husbands are not.
I had this conversation with my colleague a few weeks ago, regarding this. I mean have you ever thoughts life beyond your husband? Well there's the double d to think about - death and divorce, though I sincerely hope god forbids the second D. I mean sure currently you are happy with your life, with loving husband and amazing kids, but then I'd say always look forward and make backup plans.
If you are working, have your own savings and never ever depends totally on joint account. If you are not working, also have your own savings and don't use up all the money that your husband give you. I know it is very hard to think life beyond your husband, since I myself cannot even think about it. Sure, Husband and I fight a lot but I guess I've always love him and life beyond him is totally unthinkable!
But then I always believe that life constantly change and people do change a lot. I mean that's why you see a lot of marriages even after 10 years of blissful life suddenly broke up.
So women, you really need to have a backup plan!
Me and Husband when we were younger, not married and kind of restless, and the time when I still can fit into that kebaya (actually i can still fit into that kebaya but then the buttons will all look nearly popped out especially on the upper part..hahah)
p/s:Boyfriend Rihanna iaitu Chris Brown telah menumbuknya hingga menyebabkan Rihanna termiss buat performance semasa Grammy Awards semalam. Chris Brown pula telah ditangkap polis sebab kes ni. Saya tertanya-tanya jadikah Rihanna ni datang Malaysia 13 Februari ni ya kerana mukanya sudah lebam-lebam. Untuk berita lanjut silalah baca di sini.