I have a husband who smokes. Do you?
Well, actually I have been surrounded by friends who smoke since my uni days but to have a husband who smokes, well that's another thing for sure. So ok, I admit that to stop completely from smoking is quite impossible since he has been smoking since he was 17, but at least it would be nice if he do it bit by bit and smoke less. Ironically during fasting month, he can go without smokes during the day and he will not be complaining one bit, but come during the night he will puff like there is no tomorrow.
The thing is we have Husayn now, and I don't like the smell of his smokes around Husayn, or even around me! The good thing though is he only smoke outside the house. But still it would be nice to have a husband who does not smell of niccotine all the time. By the way I did ask him once, what if Husayn too will start smoking when he turns 17. His answer was he will not allow it. There ladies and gentleman, the weird and sometimes ironic life of a smoker. I mean for me it was ironic to not allow your child to smoke when the father is a smoker.
He used to smoke Marlboro but he smoke Sampoerna now because he's banning US products (bole ke alasan camni..haha)Even our paed once lectured Husband on his smoking habit. And the paed even guess the right brand of cigarettes that Husband was smoking that make me instantly amazed at him. And Husband has the guts to answer that he is not that heavy smoker. Haha. Funny that. I guess you could really understand what I meant if you has a smoker as your husband. Won't blame my husband though, because my late grandfather used to secretly smoked in the bathroom to avoid nagging by my grandmother and he was 70++ when he did that.
So, if you has managed to successfully convince your husband to stop smoking do share with me. I desperately need it, really!